Addressing the issue of a kid or a child being aggressive or harsh requires a comprehensive approach that involves identifying the underlying causes, and factors and implementing them with appropriate interventions.

The problem

There are various factors that might lead to a youngster being violent. There are numerous and complicated situations where a child gets engaged in violent behaviour. It is critical to recognise that each instance is unique and that various factors can combine to impact a child’s behaviour. There are several reasons why a youngster may become violent.

• Trauma: Children who see abuse, neglect, or violence are more prone to become aggressive themselves. This is due to the fact that trauma may harm a child’s emotional and psychological development, making them more inclined to behave aggressively.
• Exposure to violence: Children who are exposed to violence, whether in their homes or in their communities, are more likely to become violent themselves. This is because kids learn that using violence to solve issues and acquire what they want is a viable option. Youngsters may get desensitised to violence and become more likely to act violently if they are exposed to violent media on a regular basis, such as violent television shows, violent movies, violent video games, or internet content.
• Environment: Children who grow up in chaotic, stressful, or difficult circumstances are more likely to become aggressive. This is because kids learn that using violence to cope is a viable option. Growing up in a violent or abusive environment can significantly impact a child’s behaviour. Witnessing violence or experiencing abuse at home or in their community can greatly affect the behaviour and increase the likelihood of the child displaying violent tendencies.
• Peer pressure: Children who are around aggressive peers are more prone to become violent themselves. This is due to their desire to fit in and be accepted by their peers.
• Social learning: It occurs when children learn from adults in their life, such as their parents, teachers, and classmates. They are more prone to use violence if they watch adults using it to solve issues.
• Lack of empathy: Empathetic children are more prone to turn aggressive. The ability to comprehend and share the sentiments of others is referred to as empathy. Children who lack empathy are more prone to cause harm to others without experiencing sorrow.
• Psychological factors: Some children’s violent behaviour may be exacerbated by underlying psychological or emotional disorders. This might involve a history of trauma, neglect, or mental health disorders that have not been properly addressed.

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Article last updated on 5th June, 2023

By Rajdeep Dam